Most of the guys I have known intimately have shown an interest in getting in my back door sooner or later. I was very afraid to try anal for a very long time. Some of my girlfriends had told me about their experiences which were usually quite painful. Giving your ass to someone is a very submissive act. Of course your ass is very tight so it hightens the feeling for the guy. It is both a mental and physical thrill. If done right it can be fun for both partners. I posted a poll about anal sex awhile back. The responses from the men and women didn't exactly jive. Over 50% of the women claimed to either like or occasionally participate in anal sex, while only 18% of the guys said it is a regular part of their sexual routine. Perhaps this can be explained by the open sexual attitudes of the women who visit my website. Speaking for myself, I have to be in a relaxed and horny mood to enjoy anal. The horny part isn't a problem, but if I have had a stressful day at work, I am not going to feel like being butt fucked that night. It also helps to have a few drinks. There are several positions that will work for anal sex, but my favorite is to being laying on my back with a pillow under the small of my back. I usually give my partner one of my smaller dildos and ample ky or other sexual lubricant and coach him to slowly insert the dildo while I massage my clit. Your guy has to be really hard to make this work and his cock needs to be covered with the lubricant. Do not even attempt this without a lubricant made specifically for sex. Even after using the dildo to relax my sphincter muscles, my man has to be very careful when inserting his cock. Once he eases the head in, he can slowly thrust his cock up into my colon a little at a time until it is totally inside of me. Length isn't a problem, but an exceptionally thick cock just may not work no matter what. I have been with guys who were as big around as a beer can. I'm sorry even a bottle of Jack Daniels and a case of KY lubricant isn't going to help with that. For me it takes a full two minutes for my ass to be fully relaxed even after my guy is fully inserted. When I am having anal sex for the first time with a guy I always talk openly with him about it first and tell him what to expect and what I need from him if it is going to work. Sometimes a guy has trouble keeping his cock still enough for the time it takes me to relax and still maintain an erection. His instict is to thrust too soon which can ruin things. It helps to talk dirty to your man or rub his nipples or even put a porno on the TV for him to watch. I talk nasty to my man and tell him to be a good boy for a little longer while I play with his nipples. I slowly grant him permission to start thrusting his cock in me. Once things get rocking I start playing with my clit and I can usually cum a couple of times before he does. I also tell my guy that once things get going, he needs to just forget about me and concentrate on getting a good nut. This isn't the time or place for any prolonged orgasm control tricks. More than one guy has been ejected from the party before finishing because they couldn't play by the rules. Most of the guys I have been intimate with seem to be attracted to the slut in me. I can be a nasty girl and cross the line from naughty way into the nasty zone. I totally love it when my man gets a thrill from watching me do something especially nasty. If I know my man can handle it, I will have him take a ring side seat after shooting his load in me and while I am still on my back I will pull my legs up and do what I call a cum fart. I push like I am going to fart and let him watch his cum drip out of my ass.